Friday, May 23, 2008

Toronto Turnover

I realize that such titles possibly indicate the Lalmohonbabu spirit and temperament in me, and though I do not have any problems whatsoever with such recognition that might come into play from some remote and heartfelt corners, I only wish I had half the adventure the good-natured bhadrolok experienced.

Though a turnover can be interesting and unsettling (try tasting and then making pineapple turnovers and apple turnovers), I have doubts whether they could be called adventurous. Regardless however, turnovers happen without us having the slightest inclinations in making them happen. For, I have a can of pineapple in my pantry but the least possible thing I'm thinking of doing with it is a pineapple turnover cake. I would rather make a pineapple plastic chutney, or better still, just serve/eat it raw. But then, who can say......?

Even 6 months back, neither me or Supratim had any idea how our lives would take a turnover by being in Toronto. Whenever we think Toronto, or any city for that matter, the business area or the downtown becomes representative, owing to their supposed appeal of tall buildings. Like this picture, for example:And the above pic conveniently negates the maddeningly fast paced life, the Calcuttan feel you're bound to get at times, the newmarket seller-like mentality of the people, the road accidents, the absolutely fabulous vegetation (this might sound as too "white" but then the trees are wonderful), the rudeness of the city, the booklovers, the people who lets you live and exactly that, and the engulfing and absorbing experience one is drawn into.

This is only tip of the experience, and you can't blame me, as I'm only a few days in.

Yet, with the grumbling acceptance of the early-to-bed and early-to-rise habit that we are compelled into, and the surprise at the incivility of a North American city, somehow, among all these, Calcutta flashes by now and then....... sans the khistis and mejaj, but complete with the thelathelis and continuous running (to somewhere and God know why so fast), as well as the impassive faces.
No, not in the way when people climb moving and perfectly working escalators as well as run on anything moving. If you just stand on an escalator, you would hear very visible jeers and face haughty stares for "blocking the way". And when you get down or up, the metro is dirtier than Calcutta metro, much more so (and you would feel another misplaced pride and all that), but also thank the people who do not stare onto you because you look different from the dominant/mainstream ethnicity. The city's not a melting pot, but a big pot that accommodates. The other day I heard a little white kid say "tata"....to her familar face closeby. Cabs are familiarly called "Taxi" (We know they are always named Taxi, but to call them "taxi" is...well...more relaxing). Moreover, although after 5-6 years of stay in Canada "Thank you-s and Sorry-s" get under your skin, Toronto presents you the opportunity not to put your sunny side up when you are not feelin' like it! This is as much about "Live and let live" as possible. Therefore, as long as I get a hint of home now and then, I ain't complainin'!

I guess, sometimes, when you turn it over, things remain the same.

Encounters with random passengers on the train reading Khaled Hosseini or Pamuk or playing games on a palmtop or even a mouth organ, makes you feel the vibe, the pulse, and the existence of life that that so often is missed in a cold and alienated foreign country.

Oh...you also get red and yellow mangoes in 50 cents (each) here. More about that later!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Tagged: Tad bit more of narcissism

I was tagged some months back by a pechhon paka and now by the Jhinka chica! Supposedly, tagging relieves the blogger's block. Though, I'm more in a time block than a blogger's block so to speak, gathering up time to coherently write through a mass of things could probably be eased by a tag. So here we go:

1. LAST MOVIE YOU SAW IN A THEATER?
Ratatouille. Seven months back. Both my roomie and me loved it. And then none loved each other like before. But that's another story, and a very different one too. Also, not palatable.

2. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING?
None.

3. FAVORITE BOARD GAME?
Scrabble. Also, Ludo, at times.

4. FAVORITE MAGAZINE?

What becomes favourite does not remain so after a while. Very temporally bound then, in random order: Shuktara, Anandamela, Chnadmama, Desh, Readers' Digest, Graffiti (definitely, for the same reason Jhinka mentioned)

5. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Can't play favourites here. Not possible, since the favourites are very intense. And also very, very cliché.
Just extinguished candle, petrol, kerosene, sandalwood, wild rose, wet earth, old book smell, vanilla, lavender, paint, aloo-posto, luchi, Chnapa phool, Madhobilata on a summer evening (obviously this has to be in somewhere in West Bengal), Chanel no. 5 [:P], Also.....Flower by Kenzo (yes, I'm one big materialistic consumer)

6. FAVORITE SOUND?
Again, no single favourite. Very variable, depending on the situation and also differing at times.


7.WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD:
I guess that would be being a failure.

8.FIRST THING YOU THINK OF WHEN YOU WAKE UP?
Unfortunately, I'm unable to think of a thing. The thoughts of things to be done in the day ahead comes rumbling up as soon as I wake up.

9. FAVORITE FAST FOOD PLACE?
Bad question.

10. FUTURE CHILD'S NAME:
Brishti.



IF it's a boy, then probably Neel. But then Supratim often ponders over the possibility of the kid being called "Neel Giri", so I will have to think it over. I like the name "Ujaan" too, but my dear husband differs with me on that one too.

Well, if he chooses to differ too much, I will have three kids and name them Uday, Dhabal and Khanda.

Irrespective of gender.


11. FINISH THIS STATEMENT.
"If I had a lot of money I would.........not do research to meet the hegemonic agendas.


12.DO YOU DRIVE FAST?
Can't drive. But I like fast driving.....especially speeding very fast on a bike. Cliche, no?

13. DO YOU SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL?
I prefer not to call human beings animals.

14. STORMS-COOL OR SCARY?
Definitely cool when you are indoors. Or a kid in a rural area.

15. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR?
Never knew I appeared that male.

16. FAVORITE DRINK?
Aam porar sharbat; Long Island; Water; Seven Up.

17. FINISH THIS STATEMENT,
"IF I HAD THE TIME I WOULD... I would sleep more (and thereby, live better)

18. DO YOU EAT THE STEMS ON BROCCOLI?
If I am made to eat broccoli, then stems or flowers are hardly a choice.

19. IF YOU COULD DYE YOUR HAIR ANY COLOR, WHAT WOULD BE YOUR CHOICE?

Red!



20. NAME ALL THE DIFFERENT CITIES/TOWNS YOU HAVE LIVED IN.
Ahmadpur, Calcutta, Badajoz, Calgary, Toronto

21. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?

They are all good as long as they have good looking men in them.


22. ONE NICE THING ABOUT THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU:
I don't like the adjective "nice". I would say one helluva thing that I admire and respect in the person who sent this to me is her maturity (given her age) and wit.

23. WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED?
Ummm....wrappers. Of chocolates, trail mix bars, and so on.

I know.

24. WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE BORN AS YOURSELF AGAIN?
Absolutely.

25. MORNING PERSON, OR NIGHT OWL?
Can and have been both.

26. OVER EASY, OR SUNNY SIDE UP?
Sunny side up.

27. FAVORITE PLACE TO RELAX?
Too many and too personal to list. The place where I had spent my childhood would top the list though.

28. FAVORITE PIE?
Shepherd's. Always :D :D

29.FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR?
Chocolate; cookies and cream; peanut butter and caramel; blind love.

30. OF ALL THE PEOPLE YOU TAGGED THIS TO, WHO'S MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND FIRST?


The one who is in a narcissistic mood :P

I would tag a lot of people, but some of them do not blog anymore.

And then, I'm past the age of tagging and Frisbees. How about just passing on the baton whoever reads it (and takes it)?

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